Recently, I’ve encountered a lot of breakup stories from my friends, most of whom have been in long-term relationships—those 6 to 8-year relationships we almost thought would end in a wedding. And the reasons? Guys with their "I need to find myself" script. If you’re a girl, it’s devastating, right? I don’t see any good reason for wanting to find yourself after so many years. In fact, you can still find yourself with your partner's support. Or better yet, find yourself first before settling down or entering a relationship. I think that’s a better approach than hurting others, especially if you and your partner already have a child.
What’s even more painful is when that guy who says, "I want to find myself," ends up hooking up with another girl. That’s just sad. To the girls currently in this situation, remember that you are strong and blessed enough not to be with someone who cheated on you or played you for so many years. God has reasons for giving you that love story; He wants you to learn something. He has different ways of showing us what He wants us to do. Just trust Him—He’ll lead you to a happier life than the one you had with your previous partner.
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